Salam Ramadan Kareem. Sadar tak
sadar, sudah 14 ramadhan. Managed to be up early today after 14 days fasting. Ye
bennerrrr! Bukan utk tahajjud. Utk final world cup, yo. Not that I’m proud of
that. Just stating that perkara2 duniawi that actually can push you to do something
that ko liat nak buat sblm ni. Moga2 hambaMu ini istiqamah utk bgn malam lantas
bertahajjud padaMu ya Allah starting tomorrow.
As of now, both german and
argentina nil yo. Hope it doesn’t boil down to penalty. Argentina kuat main
defend. Only after 30 mins, baru serang. Defend german sgt lemah, but nasib
selamatkan depa, and I’m rooting for german yang agak sengal main hari ni. Magis
not yet kicked in. Argentina’s keeper is good but cocky.
Referee sgt manis and
tonggek bontotnya.
And I still find german coach sexy with his jet black hair.
Wow intro sampai 2 perenggan and
yet ini jauh dari isi-isi pentingnya. Heh. Hari ini hari ahad. Hari ahad akhbar
lagi tebal dari kebiasaan. Utusan Malaysia versi ahad or Mingguan Malaysia ada segment di celah2
kehidupan (DCCK). It was there since for-evaaa. Saya amat minat membaca segment
ini sedari kecil. Haaa. Ni baru intro yg common di segment dcck and also the
real intro for this entry. Today’s piece is almost similar to what happen to
one family. Similar yg cemana? (*update bola: ref mcm not in favour with
argentina. YES!) Btw, back to the topic. Saya lampirkan link dcck utk minggu
ini and try to relate with my own experience. (http://utusan.com.my/utusan/Keluarga/20140713/ke_01/Suami-rimas-isteri-hipokrit)
In the piece attached, si suami sgt
meluat perangai isteri yang hipokrit. Berpura-pura menyukai MIL namun kerap-kali meluahkan perasaan tidak
puas hatinya terhadap MIL, terhadap suami yg once in while mengeluarkan belanja
kepada emaknya dan isteri menzahirkan perasaan jeleknya ini kepada suaminya in
private, when there were only two of them. Sedangkan her MIL has no clue
tentang menantunya yang ‘cantek’ perangainya ini dan terus menyayangi dan
menganggap sbg menantu yang baik. What do people call this kind of menantu
anyway? How does the husband retaliate? He went to find teman tp mesra (TTM)
yang boleh menerima ibunya seadanya, still contemplating of marrying his new
TTM and keep his B*tchy wifey.
Kalo isteri yang selalu dibelasah
suami, masih teragak2 untuk tinggalkan the husband dan takut ditinggal suami
kerana tidak punya kerja, takde source of income langsung, anak pulak berduyun-duyun.
Ok, that one is acceptable. Tp kalo yang cerdik pandai, ada kerja bagus asyik
jadi mangsa belasahan suami, lagi mahu defend the husband, itu BODOH! I however
do wonder what makes a husband berat hati to dump a bitchy wife’s ass like in
DCKK. But you can read the husband’s justification in the artikel lah. (*yesss!!
One goal for germany!! Now I have to sujud syukur later.)
In my case, perangai ‘cantek’ of
the wife is well known to the close family. She managed to makan kuih talam
with distant family, and they somehow adore her. (*aannnnddd germany is the
world cup champion. The coach is still hooottss!) Why do they adore her so
much? Cause she’s quite chatty, and we’re not. We as much as possible try not to
talk bad about her or bawak cerita2 buruk pasal fake hipokrit wife (FHW) – note that I am trying my best
not to call her names. Mana tahu dia jumpa belog misterius aiolls, kata aku
dengki pulak. Saya hanya coretkan benda yang jadi without memaki hamun nya,
eventhough I am so keen to do so.
Similar to the artikel in DCKK, the wife
perangai ‘cantek’ and she doesn’t respect her MIL. The difference is the MIL
knew it since FHW had her first child and that never changes sampai anak dah hamper
setengah dozen. Lepas beranak anak pertama, agaknya royan lah kot, she screamed
her lungs out knowing that her husband just bought his mother a new fridge. Alaa peti
bukan yg besar pintu rumah tu. Peti yang ala2 cukop la nk isi barang since the
old fridge yang umurnya lagi tua dari aiolls masa tu, dah kurang menyejuk. Dia marah pasal xleh belikan mak die skuter. At
least in DCCK, the wife is working. Yang ni dh la tak kerja, nak marah org
pasal die tak boleh belikan mak dia skuter.
Kalo nak sangat beli skuter kat
mak hang, asal tak kumpol duit elaun laki ko bg yg ko bangga2 sgt tu, belikan
mak hang skuter. Weird royan lady. Can you imagine that? She did that not just
in front of her MIL, depan GMIL as well. Days before that dah moncong bila her
husband bawak her first newborn child pi jumpa tok guru untuk tahnik. Masa tu
her husband’s aunty ada sekali. Cantek ke tak perangai mcm teeww? Dah baru
menikah baru anak first dah kurang hajo, tak tahu malu, takde rasa hormat. Masa
tu assume die meroyan ajelaa. Kata baru pas beranak, kan.
Yet the MIL never complains, melainkan
kekadang cita rasa sedih dapat menantu ‘cantek’ camtu dekat anak2 je. Sabarrrr jewww,
so long her son is happy with FHW. Kami yang menggelegak, yet can’t do much,
obeying the mother not to cari pasal and still maintain muka natural whenever
we met. Tapi since die beranak every other year, meroyan dia tak habis2. Tapi jelekk
kot. Jelek ya amat. Sapa tak jelek, ko dah kena nasik kangkang kot. Dah bertawun2
menikah tak reti nk insap. Dah nak masuk 40 lagi sukar nak insap. Dh kena makan
buah salak ritu, insap la kejap. We tried to accept her la and start all over
again, take it as nothing happen. Buat mcm adek beradek kandung, bila nampak
dia mellow down lepas kena talak sekali. Tp tak payah turun deep sangat, I know
she’d never change. Dah tua Bangka camtu, dah sebati, memang sukar nak berubah.
And she proved me just that.
This FHW, bukan setakat suka
meroyan, suka jerit2 kat org bila tak kena dengan hangin dia. Dia juga suka
laga2 kan orang. Hasut semua org not to like the husband’s family. Dia kata,
the hubby’s family is parasite. Nak menompang laki dia. Oucchh! She once came
to the MIL, being her chatty self, cuba2 korek2 cerita about other menantu. A vulnerable
single parent like her MIL masukla perangkap dia. Keluar la cerita sikit2 yang
mana dia rasa tak berkenan pada menantu yang lain. Cara dia – dia keluarkan
cerita dia dulu nak pancing the MIL, and she got what she wanted lah. Oh well,
cuba ckp MIL mana yg tak buat mcm tu. Especially bila dipancing.
But again as I mentioned before,
this FHW is kuih talam bermuka dua. Dia pi ke biras dia, berceghita betapa the
MIL, and their in-laws tak puas hati dgn si biras. As if dia takde menokok-tambah betapa dia sendiri pon tak puas hati dgn berasnya. And she did just that in
front of my face. I remembered that time in particular when we went to do
groceries shopping togede2. Mungkin dia rasa aku bdk2 tak campur hal org tua. Or
dia ingat aku duk kat blkg keta, pekak tak dengar depa dok depan keta borak2. Yang
si BERAS1 takleh pikir cemana si FHW tahu cerita MIL tak puas hati kalo bkn FHW
yg pancing. Unless, the MIL is famous for bawak cerita2 buruk semua orang and
tell the world about it, or at least at other time pi cerita kat BERAS1 pulak
betapa buruknya perangai FHW, which she is SO NOT! And since then berantakanlah
hubungan the hubby’s family and the in-laws. Thanks so much to FHW!
Situasi tak berubah ke arah
kebaikan dengan BERAS1 and beliau sudah terkeluar dari cerita ni. FHW had
approached BERAS2 and trying to approach the rest of the berases. I hope BERAS2
won’t get to the same ending as BERAS1. Recently FHW meroyan lg after the first
talak. This time she disrespected her MIL big time not to attend an important
family function. Her reason: dia marah laki dia bg anak sedara tumpang keta utk
blk sama2 for that big event, coz she already said NO the first time. And I insisted
the SIL to go and ask her brother directly. Why went and ask FHW in the first
place? Orang mcm tu is a gone case. Cannot be hel-PED. Dah tak de rasa malu. Dah
hilang rasa hormat dekat kita. Org tgh buat event dlm masjid depan ramai2
strangers, boleh nak terpekik2 bertekak.
So tell me dear reader (as if ada
reader sangat lah kan), just give me only one good reason as why should we keep
this kind of creature among us? As to me, apa aku dpt bercerita kat sini? Nak buka
pekung di dada? Geram kot. Dah even dgn distant family yg mmg memuja2 FHW ni dah
tak boleh nak cerita dah. Tu mmg obvious buka pekung kot. Or nanti kata aku
dengki. Heh. As if!!
But again for whatever happens
around me, I take it as a life lesson. I know I definitely don’t want to be
tak malu, uncivilized like FHW to my MIL. Duhai laki ko nak beli gajah, rimau dkt mak ko, ko belilah.
So long I am not deprived of my rights. Cukup makan pakai anak aku. Jangan nak
gila royan tak tentu pasal mcm FHW. Ngeri sioll! Malu ngan in-laws kot.
Akhir kalam, German wins 2014
world cup in Brasil!!
